19,047 upvotes
Jul 21, 2026, 7:04 PM UTC
Posted by /u/Benromaniac
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19,047 upvotes
Jul 21, 2026, 7:04 PM UTC
Posted by /u/Benromaniac
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Jul 21, 2026, 9:46 PM UTC
Posted by /u/polymute
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Jul 21, 2026, 11:35 PM UTC
397 upvotes
Jul 21, 2026, 4:14 PM UTC
Posted by /u/Kutluna
I've had this thought since I was a kid, and every time I bring it up to my friends they just laugh. But I genuinely don't understand it, so I'm curious if there's an explanation from psychology, sociology, evolutionary biology, or history. I'm a straight man, and my logic has a…
338 upvotes
Jul 21, 2026, 12:36 PM UTC
Posted by /u/Captain_Strudels
I've quoted the claim word-for-word from a very recent frontpage sub, however I've seen this sentiment echoed more than once and it got me curious. It seems really unlikely to me - at most, perhaps unmarried men might seek out war for social mobility, but I can't imagine some le…